Ep 2. Hilary Harper - Love Online After 50
After twenty years of marriage, ABC broadcaster Hilary Harper found herself single - and curious about dating again. Her hit ABC podcast Dated: Love Online After 50 explores what happens when midlife meets modern romance. In this episode, Hilary talks candidly about fear, discovery, and finding love again, offering hope and humour for anyone thinking it might be “too late.”
In this episode, we also discuss:
The emotional journey of healing, rebuilding self-worth, and preparing to seek love again in midlife
Practical challenges (and surprises) of online dating after 50, from crafting an authentic profile to navigating new relationship norms
How shifting priorities—and deeper self-knowledge—can lead to healthier, more meaningful connections
The crucial role of strong friendships and support systems when taking big steps after a major life change
Embracing vulnerability, setting boundaries, and being true to what you want in a new relationship
Insights on modern love, from blended families to polyamory, and the importance of celebrating your own unique story
Advocacy for better support and understanding of women’s health, sensuality, and agency in the second half of life
This episode was produced by James Pattison, Miniature Productions.
Guest: Hilary Harper, ABC Radio National
Hilary’s Bio
Podcast: Dated: Love On Line AFter Fifty
Forthcoming book: ‘Love Matters: Heartwarming stories of finding love from the former host of the ABC radio show Life Matters’, available via HarperCollins in 2027
Sue’s Services
Connect with Sue
Website: Flourish After Fifty
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sue-west-au/
Email: sue@flourishafterfifty.com.au
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